Everyone

“For though I am free from all, I have made myself a servant to all, that I might win more of them. 20 To the Jews I became as a Jew, in order to win Jews. To those under the law I became as one under the law (though not being myself under the law) that I might win those under the law. 21 To those outside the law I became as one outside the law (not being outside the law of God but under the law of Christ) that I might win those outside the law. 22 To the weak I became weak, that I might win the weak. I have become all things to all people, that by all means I might save some. 23 I do it all for the sake of the gospel, that I may share with them in its blessings” 1 Corinthians 9: 19-23 ESV
We all have our comfort zones. We would rather hang around with folks worth similar interests and lifestyles. As Christians we tend to want to hang around with people of similar religious philosophy and spirituality. Most of us don’t go to someone’s house to have church. We don’t see pews at work (Well some of us do.) We don’t go on the street corner to look for God. My question, why?
As Paul evangelized to people in Asia and Europe he encountered three different groups of people. The Jews, Gentiles and non-believers. Each of these groups had subgroups with different beliefs as well. Paul could have been very comfortable preaching and evangelizing to one of these groups, yet he chose all of them. Paul’s message in 1 Corinthians 9: 19-23 talks about this.
First Paul talks about being a servant. He has free will. He doesn’t have to do anything. But God wants him to do something. Paul is to be a servant to his fellow men. All of his fellow men. We don’t get to pick and choose who to serve, not if we are doing it God’s way. It’s never about us in God’s house. It’s all about God.

 

Will you fight to spread the name of Jesus?

Will you fight to spread the name of Jesus?

I like to think of today’s the Jews Paul talked of as the very churched. We love to hang with our fellow parishioners. We even pick churches where we fit in. We have so much in common with them. It is an easy place to be. So easy that we often overlook behaviors and attitudes that are not spiritually correct. In many ways it is easier to be morally and spiritually bankrupt in church than anywhere else. If we are spreading God’s word we have to do it among ourselves as well. We have to hold each other accountable to God’s word.
Those under the law? My modern day analogy are those seeking God but not there yet. They may know the Ten Commandment- or most of them. They know there is a Jesus. But they do not understand what their relationship with Jesus Christ is. They will go from church to church. Sometimes they sit at home thinking they can be close to God without church. There is a sense of apprehension about discussing their spirituality with others.
If we don’t take the time to approach them and tell them about Jesus they will stagnate, often lost to Christ forever. We need to go find them, they will rarely find us. We may find them in the last pews of church, at work, or even in social gatherings. But they are there. Will we have the passion and take the effort to find them?
Then there are those who are “outside the law.” Those who choose not to believe in God or have never heard of Him. They too are at our work and social gatherings. It is way less comfortable to talk to those people. We can be called Bible thumpers, Jesus freaks. They will attempt to refute all our testimony. We will often fail. But if we don’t tell people about our Lord and Savior we deprive them of the joy that we have. Once we talk to them we need to give God a chance to do his thing, reaching their hearts

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He needs Jesus too> Will you talk to him?

He needs Jesus too> Will you talk to him?

There are also places we don’t like to go. Street corners, homeless shelters, jails and prisons are full of people who don’t know Jesus. The lifestyle of folks in these places can be very different than ours. But they truly need to know we love them, that Jesus loves them. If there is any group that can gain from a relationship with Christ it is these folks. Jesus says in Mark 2:17 “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.” If we imitate Christ, we will find the sick as well.
The mantra Peter uses for all these groups is “to win”. It is truly a war with victory. Victory in the joy of spreading the word of Christ. And if we remain obedient and in love with Christ we will fight it. In war we don’t know who we’ll face. To win this war we have to become all things to all people. Paul says so. We have to become all things to all people. We have to embrace our fellow saints, wandering questions, and those without hope and/or knowledge of Jesus Christ. We need to meet all these people where they are, not where we want them to be. That’s how we win the war.
God Bless,
Mark

God of Discipline (Pieces of God- Part Three)

There are many joyous occasions as a parent.  Kids mess up a musical number consistently, and then nail it at the school concert. Your daughter makes mommy French toast for the first time.  Your son holds a door for an old lady without you telling him.  It seems like they are always “graduating something,” making you proud.  You brag about your kids constantly- that’s what parents do.  And then it happens.  Your child screws up.  It happens to all of us.  Perfection only occurs for God.  So what do we do when our kids make mistakes?  What a great time to look at God’s example.

We all make mistakes, but what will we learn from them?

We are all God’s children, and He is the God of discipline.  Lost in discipline is that God truly wants us to learn.  Discipline does have a purpose- teaching us grows us spiritually.  We are made in God’s image.  God is in charge of our discipline- ALL of ALL of our discipline.  God does this without ever giving up on us.  We can walk away from God; God never walks away from us.  The prodigal son leaves, but when he returns his Father greets him with an embrace.

God uses punishment as part of discipline.  God never uses punishment for vengeance or anger.  The punishment is to get our attention.  God uses punishment to slow us down to think about a decision or problem.  God was even willing to make the Jews walk an extra 40 years through the desert, plenty of time to think. 

God continues to love us when He disciplines us.  It may not seem that way at the time.  When God had the big fish swallow Jonah he probably wasn’t feeling much love from the Father.  But God was teaching Jonah about obedience as well as doing the right thing in place of the easy thing.  And God loved Jonah enough to leave him in a fish so he got the point. At the end of the Book of Job God talks to Job for a long time.  God reminds Job that He is boss, creator of everything, and we are nothing compared to Him.  God then turns around and provides a new family and life for Job, showing love.    

God’s discipline is patient and persistent.  He will repeat the same lessons over and over until we get it.  The disciples are great example of that.  If I were Jesus I would have quit on the disciples many times.  But Jesus kept bringing them back, despite their failures.  The repetitive failures of Peter could fill volumes on their own.  But Christ hung in there.  Even after Christ’s death, God’s plan was for Jesus to stick around for a while to re-enforce lessons already taught.  That’s a good thing for all of us.  None of us get everything right after be taught the first time.  Why is God so persistent?  None of God’s lessons are unimportant.  He demands they be heard, no matter what the time or cost.

What will you teach?

God disciple sometimes is meant to send us toward a potential we can’t even conceive.  When Saul (Paul) was running around killing Christians, God blinded him to help Saul realize the error of his ways.  But when Paul reformed and started spreading the word of Jesus Christ, God still wasn’t done with Paul.  God often keep Paul running for his life or in jail even why Paul ministered.  God disciples us so we achieve a greatness that we can’t even conceive.

Lastly God disciplines with a forgiving heart.  When many of those same disciples turned away as God’s Son died on the cross, God restored Christ, forgiving all of us.  And then the teaching continued.  Moses broke the tablets containing the Ten Commandments after seeing his tribes worship false idols.  God punished Moses’ people, but then he re-wrote the Commandments for Moses on another set of tablet.  How much easier it would be to abandon us all.

So how do we discipline our kids?  The same way God disciplines us.  The word disciple means to teach, and we must never forget that.  And our children do need taught.  We need to discipline with love.  I have painstakingly learned to say (and mean) “I love you” before, during and after disciplining my children.   We need to disciple with patience.  Mistakes will be made and repeated.  We need to hang in there with good discipline; it is just as important when we repeat it.  God will help our lessons be heard when it is time.  We need to punish our kids, but with a gentle heart.  The question “Why am I doing this?” needs to be asked when we punish our kids.  The answer must be consistent with appropriate disciple.  When we disciple we need to want more for our kids.  The underachieving “B” student needs instructive guidance just as much as the “D” student who just doesn’t get it.  Lastly, we need to let our kids know that we discipline them because we will never give up on them.  It is easier to walk away, but that is not what the God does.  And we need to follow the Lord’s example.

God Bless,

Mark

Is God R Rated?

Is God R rated?

Paul gathered a pile of brushwood and, as he put it on the fire, a viper, driven out by the heat, fastened itself on his hand. Acts 28:3 NIV

But Lot’s wife looked back, and she became a pillar of salt. Genesis 19:25-27 NIV

Now the LORD provided a huge fish to swallow Jonah, and Jonah was in the belly of the fish three days and three nights.  Jonah 1:16-17 NIV

Immediately, because Herod did not give praise to God, an angel of the Lord struck him down, and he was eaten by worms and died. Acts 12:22-24 NIV

.And forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive them that trespass against us… The Lord’s Prayer

I received an email from a friend the other day.  She just finished writing her memoirs and talked about them being being PG-13.  I thought about it and mine are usually g rated or rarely PG-17.  I wonder if that is because I take the side of God being a loving God.  I do not fear God the way I should.  I guess because I prefer to try to stay on the right side of the Lord.  But is God all that PG-13?  The answer is no.

In the Old Testament people get eaten by fish, turned into pillars of salt, die because they are the oldest born, or just get swallowed into the earth if they make God mad enough.  At one point all but Noah and his sons get drowned.  God even wipes out the animals on earth he is so angry at that point.  Think the New Testament is any better?  In Acts 5:1-10 Ananais and Sapphira instantly drop dead when they lie about their possessions to the Peter, in effect being dishonest with God. And what about Paul?  He gets his life together and preaches the word of Jesus Christ abroad.  Paul’s reward?  Paul gets shipwrecked, bitten by a snake, and then thrown in a prison in Rome.

It is important to remember trials, tribulations, persecution and death do occur under the watch of God’s eye.  Some we induce.  Correction, most we induce.  Some help make us a better person.  I was reminded today that had my own personal world not disintegrated, I may never have been led to ministry.  And other things just suck, because we don’t understand all of what God does.  Those are times when we may never be able to understand God’s why, but still must maintain faith.  Ask Job about that. 

We also need to realize that even though God love us, he is not afraid to let us perish if we do not come to Christ. Just look at how many times the phrase “weeping and gnashing of teeth” is used in the Bible- six times in Matthew alone.  God’s grace is conditional.  Heaven is conditional.  But God always holds up his end of the bargain.  It is man who wanders from the relationship with Christ.

I’m still hoping to avoid getting eaten by a fish or worms (Ironic request for a guy who uses worms to catch fish.).  And if we all dropped dead after we sinned by lying, well it would be a pretty empty world, wouldn’t it?  I would have made it until I got asked if I ate the cookie that was in the jar!  I’m trying to think of any commandment I haven’t broken… Hmmmmm.  So why are we here?  Who’s clearing the slate?  It is that same God who is capable of all that wrath.  Our Lord is a forgiving God- just for the asking.  And I need God’s grace and forgiveness every day, because I’ve yet to have a “perfect” day.  I also try and remember God is for us, he doesn’t want us to fail.  We couldn’t ask for a better person in our corner.  And that is how I dwell on the loving Lord that we have.  And I guess a little nightly prayer asking to not get eaten by worms or bitten by a snake doesn’t hurt either.

God Bless,

Mark

The World’s Best Employee

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.  In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:

Who, being in very nature God,
did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
rather, he made himself nothing
by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness.
And being found in appearance as a man,

 He humbled himself
 by becoming obedient to death—
 even death on a cross!

Therefore God exalted him to the highest place
and gave him the name that is above every name,
that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow,
in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord,
to the glory of God the Father.”  
Philippians 2:4-11

I have a friend who had a really difficult job.  He labored long hours in difficult conditions.    People either thought he had all the answers or hated him.  He was tasked with training others no one else would have chosen.  At the end, some were so jealous of how well he did his job that they forced him out.  The folks who he had trained hid, afraid to be around him for fear of repercussions.  His boss even asked him to stay on for free, after he was fired.  The man, ever so obedient, did stay for a little over a month.  During that time he could have been living on a pension well earned.  Instead he stood, retraining the men who were so devastated by his loss.  In the end, he did leave, but not before the men got their acts together.  Knowing they would stumble again, he even left a replacement, so the men would never be alone. Only then did the man retire.  But like many retired men, he never really stopped working, and always kept the men close to his heart.  Actually, one day he would even come back to visit, to see how the men had carried on in his absence.

How will you change the world?

Yes, I am talking about Jesus.  The man who trained the disciples- a group nobody else thought were even worthy of being apostles.  Jesus who work in difficult conditions, ranging from being mobbed by believers to being run out of town.  Jesus who always had the Pharisees criticizing Him.  Jesus, who was “fired” by the masses- sentenced to die on the cross.  Jesus who could of went to Heaven, but chose to stay a while.  Jesus who never stopped teaching.  Jesus who left us with the Holy Spirit, so we would always have comfort and guidance.

That is the definition of a servant’s heart.  Would any of us have the heart to stay where we aren’t wanted?  Do we have the courage to do what is right, not what is easy?  Jesus did.  In Philippians 2, Paul talks about Jesus the servant.  Humble.  Obedient.  Selflessness, never doing anything out of vanity or conceit.   Can we be Him? No.  We can be like Christ.  Christ’s time on earth shows us a better way to live.  And the reward, the same as Christ’s, eternity with the Father. 

I have to believe that even though the path is sometimes difficult, serving others lightens my heart.  It is an opportunity to be closer to God.  And for Christ’s example I will always be grateful.

God Bless,

Mark