Praying for othersI needed visit a business the other day. When I arrived I found a fellow church member working there. What a pleasant surprise. She told me her annual performance review was scheduled to be later that day. She smiled and asked me to pray for her.
So I did what she asked. I place a hand on her shoulder and started praying. I think this shocked her. When I prayed for more than 30 seconds it surprised her as well. I had to tell her that I wasn’t done yet. (I jokingly told her if she wanted to see a long prayer come to Summit County Jail where there is an abundance to pray for.)
I think I made her uncomfortable. I don’t know if anyone has ever done that for her before. But if you ask me to pray I will. And I will do it in your presence, for several reasons.
“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” 1Thessalonians 5:17-18. To pray continually means you need to start praying- that means do it now! I presume I’m not alone in this. I have a hard time remembering anything. If I wait until my next routine time to pray I will forget. Pray now, God is ready to listen.
“So Jesus had compassion on them, and touched their eyes: and immediately their eyes received sight, and they followed him…” (Matthew 20:34). The laying of hands on people is something Jesus often did. Clearly we are not Jesus, but we can emulate his way of showing we care for others.
But the fruit of the Spirit is LOVE, joy, peace, patience, KINDNESS, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22. Praying in the presence of someone also lifts the importance of the person’s prayer request. It lets the Holy Spirit flow through us. It lets them know you really care. And the world certainly needs more caring.
Is anyone among you suffering? Let him pray. Is anyone cheerful? Let him sing praise. James 5:13.When you pray out loud with someone they know God has heard the prayer. Even praying silently with them doesn’t convey that what the content of the prayer actually includes. Praise and prayer should never be silenced.
“When 2 or more gathered in my name, I am among them.” Matthew 18:19 ESV. When we pray together Jesus is with us. I love Jesus being in my presence, don’t you?
Back to 1 Thessalonians 5:17. It does say to “pray continuously.” We need to not let that current prayer be the end. If necessary we can even write down our prayer requests to not forget to keep praying for other’s needs. That list is also helpful in thanking God for answered prayers.
What if you’re talking on the phone and someone asks for prayer? I suggest praying then as well. Nothing really changes except the physical touch.
I can’t wait to see my friend Sunday and find out how her performance review went. In the meantime I’m sure you can find someone to help encourage with prayer as well.
God Bless,
Mark